Be Yourself!

Be Yourself!

It may happen to you that sometimes you fake yourself when you are attracted to someone! But one thing I want you to know is that, when you are attracted to someone and you have to be fake when you are with them, then they are not the one. Just because I say fake, doesn't mean you are fake wanting to hurt or destroy someone, it means you aren't yourself! For example, you may act so friendly when you are in fact a quiet person, you may act like you are lazy while in fact you want to work hard,etc. or vice versa.

We are all special, we have our own traits and characteristics and it's often when you meet someone who have similar traits to you, then you consider them as the one! In fact, NO, not because someone has similar traits to you means they are the one! Trust me, that's just a part of a relationship! 

You may possess many similar traits, but not all! Because like I said, everyone has their own specialty! If each of you or both of you are likely to be fake in front of each other, then your love is not going to last a lifetime! The reason is that if you are fake, not long enough, you'll be back to your own self! 

And remember! People never want to be fake because it's uncomfortable, except if they are in a situation where they don't fit in! But, if they want to be in that situation just because they think it's awesome, so the only solution is not to be who they truly are. What I mean is that, if you are attracted to someone wrong, the one who doesn't fit you well, but you think they are cool and you feel like wanting to be with them forever, and then you start to be fake wanting them to like or love you! And that's the thing that most people confuse that they found TRUE LOVE and finally end up being hurt.

Believe me! Those, who can't make you feel comfortable being who you really are, don't deserve you, it could be just a short period of time and they will eventually leave you. "You must be yourself and don't ever try to chase anyone! Remember you can't chase love or it won't last forever!"

If they are the one, they will come to you and love you for whom you truly are! They respect, care and support what you do and whatever you dream of. You two can understand each other even without words! You fight but you then solve problems together! You are yourself and feel comfortable around them, and there are faults within you because "no one is perfect", but still, they accept, understand, come to you and STAY! And that's the one, your soulmate, who can make you feel confident, valuable, comfortable and happy in your whole life!